Pa's Journeys

National Tour - Happy Mother's Day

2009-05-11T06:50:00.000-07:00

We are on a national tour, Indiana for Ethan's baptism, New York City to see Julianne and Southlake, Texas on Wednesday to see the Horn's - home on Saturday night. In the midst of our journey we find Mother's Day. To each of the mother's, or mother's to be, in our family; may your reflections on this wonderful day turn heavenward in gratitude for all this has been and continues to be given, for I do as I thank a loving Heavenly Father for each of you. My appreciation for the sacrifices, gifts and love extended by each of you is immeasurable. As we look to the challenges in our society, my thoughts ponder, what if...? Our society has, for many years, sought to diminish the role of motherhood, seeking to secularize that which is divinely given. Thanks to each of you for your sustaining and loving kindness, born of a divine understanding of what truly matters. Each of you have had a profound affect on those of us nurtured by your tenderness - as recipients of your love, or obersevers of your wonderful examples. I am grateful for each, for your love, for your tenderness, for your perspective and for your great examples.

It saddens me when I look about and see the sacred role of mother supplanted in society, and reaffirms in my heart the gratitude I have that you are in our lives. I posted previously about the mother's and mother's to be in our family here.

In further reflection and reading of past blogs, I regret having not continued my Sabbath Reflections, having become over laden with too much stuff - time reminds me to simplify and begin again.

Photoshop Technology - Thanks Matthew

2009-04-19T17:51:00.000-07:00

For those who asked for the picture of Delicate Arch - Here you go! Amazingly, Matthew was able to clean up the photo to give the appearance that no one else was there - he even put the top back up on the arch that our kind photographer deleted. Thanks Matthew.

Happy Parker Day!

2009-04-18T20:26:00.000-07:00

Julianne made reference to it here, but we wanted all to know what a wonderful day it is - Parker Day. Forty years ago today, Lauren and I began a journey together that has brought joy beyond measure, 6 amazing sons and daughters, 5 wonderful companions to our sons and daughters, and 14 grandchildren. It began with the Spring Fling at Disneyland in 1969, and continues today and through eternity. We have traveled the world together as a family, we have experienced things we never could have imagined, we have had our midnight moments through trial and tribulation, we have laughed and we have cried, we have lived with uncertainty and prosperity, all of which have provided perspective that brings us to a remembrance of what truly matters.

We spent the past couple of days at the Sorrel River Ranch,

reminiscing about our experiences together and as a family these past years, thinking about the abundant joys of the present and the hopes for our individual and collective futures. Every day is truly a gift and we are grateful for the tender mercies of the Savior that have made it all possible. We floated on the Colorado River today and took in the beauty that enveloped us. We spent Thursday on an advanced trek to the Delicate Arch in Arches National Park. We would have posted our photo together but the guy taking the photo cut out the arch. No cell connections, no computers, some amazing scenery and wonderful moments and memories.

Easter - A Wonderful and Solemn Remembrance

2009-04-11T16:00:00.000-07:00

As we ponder the wonder of it all, amid worldly commotion, may we express our humble and heartfelt gratitude for the tender mercies and love of our Friend and Savior.

A personal witness and relationship with the Master affords only joy unmeasured. I am grateful for each who exhibit such in their lives as they offer needed encouragement amid the storms of life.

Congratulations

2009-02-26T13:14:00.000-08:00

Congratulations to Lincoln - a Great Day in Las Vegas!
Monday night Lincoln received his White Coat

The Happy Couple

The Class of 2012

A Happy Day!

Be Mine

2009-02-14T09:38:00.000-08:00

Lauren and I have been together for 40 years this Spring, since the Spring Fling at Disneyland in 1969. Forty wonderful years! Without doubt, love is eternal and amid the vissitudes and experiences of life, only grows stronger. Love is pure and the foundational source for joy, evidenced in the example of He whose love for each of us is without measure. It is reassuring and comforting amid the uncertainties of mortality that we are one by loving covenant for "time and all eternity." There is great peace and joy in eternal perspectives, and knowing what is and what can be, because of a loving price paid so long ago. To all, and especially to Lauren, Happy Valentine's Day!

Thank you for enduring well the infirmities and uncertainties of mortality-you are my strength in the midnight moments of life.

The Tour Continues - Pure Joy

2009-02-14T09:15:00.001-08:00

The joys of life reside in family, and the past couple weeks have been full. Three basketball games on three consecutive Saturdays; Jack in San Clemente, Ethan in Carmel and Parker in Southlake. Next week it is Mesa and then on to Lincoln's White Coat Ceremony in Las Vegas. Amid the challenges in our society, family offers comfort and perspective. We are grateful for the peaceable things that are resident in the love of family and the joys of children and grandchildren.

Miles came nose to nose with me yesterday and said, tounge in cheek, "Pa, you are weird." You have to love it! We are grateful for all 14 of these precious souls.

US Tour - Joys of Life!

2009-02-04T06:50:00.000-08:00

We are on a brief tour of the US, visiting our family. New York, California, Nevada and Indiana this past week, and Texas, Arizona and Nevada in the next 2 1/2 weeks.

Some highlights (my forte is not photography, look only to the subject matter) - more to follow. A new camera must be in the offing.

You would hope that with six kids, they would live near unto each other - but! Our national tours keep us young, I think.

It Is Finished, and Now a New Beginning

2009-01-28T23:04:00.000-08:00

Having been compelled to humility - PC's are done and on to the iMAC. Yes, to all of our kids and their intelligent spouses, we have turned to stability and simplicity and purchased not one, but two MACs. If only I had listened long ago, what grief would have been saved, even my files!

So a new life begins and blogs will return. Sorry for the absence Mom.

On another note, our near term schedule has us in Washington DC and New York (Lauren) and California and Nevada (David) this weekend. Then off to Indy, as if it isn't cold enough in Sundance, and then Southlake (let's hope it warms up) for the two weeks following. Home a couple of days and then off to Mesa and Las Vegas (Lincoln's White Coat Ceremony is on the 23rd).

It Has Been Awhile - So Go the Computer Wars! PC or MAC?

2009-01-19T21:34:00.000-08:00

Yes, it has been far too long. I can make all kinds of excuses for a post failure, but the substance of the issue in 2009 has been computer wars! My HP Pavilion Notebook has been on the fritz and quite unstable since the first of the year. It's progression has led to a complete failure and hard drive crash this weekend, leaving me without. Without files, pictures, skype, email, presentations, spreadsheets and the like! Bummer - yes, absolutely. In a world of independence, man (and me, especially) has become totally dependent upon the machinations of one Bill Gates. In the past 5 years, I have purchased a Sony notebook (hard drive crashed the night before the Newport Beach Temple VIP Open House), a Toshiba which has been on and off for 3 years and burns your hand after operating for 15 minutes, and this past April the HP Pavilion (hard drive just crashed). The computers have been challenging, but they have been inconsequential compared to the idiocy and frustrations derived from Mr. Gates' Vista! And then, when compounded with the HP printers, I have reached the pinnacle! You would think that HP could produce printers that sync with HP computers, all of which are grounded in the "failings" of Microsoft.

Albert Einstein once said the definition of insanity, to paraphrase, is to do the same thing over and over expecting different results. Hence my dilema, am I insane? The quandry, quickly evaporating, is delving back into the PC world or join the ranks of all others in our family who have converted to MAC (yes, Mike I am almost there, just give me one more night of compelled humility!).

So, here is the plan - tomorrow evening it is off to the Apple store to buy a MacPro or iMAC desktop and a lightweight MacBook. PC's are history and forever lost to the junk heap. I have 3 PC Notebooks for sale for any who seeks an adventure and lacks frustration in their lives! Once re-computered, the blogging will continue. Be well!

A Winter Wonderland

2008-12-26T10:43:00.000-08:00

We have had quite a winter thus far - it truly is a winter wonderland. And, what fun it is being snowed in!

The Gift - May You Have a Joyous Christmas!

2008-12-24T11:55:00.000-08:00

In this glorious season, amid the commotion of all things, may we each remember the precious and sacred gift given to each of us so long ago. It is so easy to become caught up in the tumult of our day and consumed by all that "needs be done." Amidst it all, may we pause with perspective and ponder upon that which is of greatest worth - the birth, life and atoning love of our Savior and Redeemer - that we may be so reconciled, such that our hearts are one with His and His image is reflected in our countenance and all that we are and hope to be. Merry Christmas!

1,000 Words

2008-12-07T18:02:00.000-08:00

Bora Bora (Bali Hai)

Glimpses from the beautiful lands and waters of French Polynesia – after Alaska, maybe we should have family by family trips to Tahiti? We have found the perfect spot on Bora Bora. This is an amazing land with beautiful vistas, magnificent waters, abundant coral reefs and fish, unique mountains and very low and isolated atolls, spectacular sunsets and night skies and stars, and above all wonderful people. Although we have pictures, they don’t do it justice. The weather has been phenomenal, and the waters pristine and warm. We attended church today and met some wonderful, humble and kind saints. We are having a great time.

A Motu (island) near Raiatea and Tahaa

The Rangiroa Atoll - 1 of 41 of the 78 inhabited atolls of TuAmotu's

The entrance to Rangiroa

We found something old - Sacred Stones at Huahine

From Tahaa to Raiatea

Fortunately, we had a great captain at the helm!

Sabbath Reflections – Scriptural Knowledge and Understanding

2008-12-07T17:54:00.000-08:00

In the Meridian of Time when Christ was among the children of men and rendering all in His mortal ministry, He imparted to each, His tenderness, love and mercy without measure, even His very life was freely given, that we might live. Gratefully, the records of His life and ministry, as written by the apostles and prophets are available to us in abundance, even though the abundance we share is less than 1/100^th of all that was written and transpired. The scriptural tutorials of the Master and the prophets provide so much needed enlightenment as to what truly matters to each of us in our day.The scriptures offer critical and defining insight and understanding, and even more so, comfort amid life’s challenges and seemingly routine events.They offer perspective beyond mortality and instill within each of us, hope for a brighter day.

It is interesting to note in the Master’s teachings, that in all things He taught from the scriptures and the prophets who preceded Him. The unifying and binding process of His tutorials rests among His revelations to the prophets and that which was subsequently written and available to all, and then when teaching in His mortal ministry referring all, or making reference, to the very written word He had previously revealed to His prophets. He who came to this earth, the Creator and Revelator of all things, taught in the Meridian of Time, and does so even now, from the very scriptures and written words of His prophets as He had revealed it to them then and continues to reveal it to them today. The constancy of His teaching through scriptures is a template for us – He knew the revealed word, as the Giver thereof, and taught there from. So it is for us to know that which is written, feasting upon the words of Christ and teaching and living thereby. The abundance of His written words, through His prophets, is sustenance to each of us today. “The scriptures give us nourishment for every season of life.” Yet, being knowledgeable of scriptures while leaving undeveloped the virtues of love, mercy, meekness, and patience is not enough for full discipleship in Christ. Therefore it is incumbent upon each of us to not only know the scriptures, but to apply them, and not letting “the care[s] of this world … choke the word” (Matt. 13:22).

The perspectives from the scriptures provide for each of daily in so many ways. As we interact with each other, born of our scriptural foundations, insights and divine tutoring, we come to a greater understanding of who we are and with whom we associate. C. S. Lewis put this so well when speaking of mankind, he said: “It is in the light of these overwhelming possibilities, it is with the awe and the circumspection proper to them, that we should conduct all our dealings with one another, all friendships, all loves, all play, all politics. There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. Nations, cultures, arts, civilisations—these are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But it is immortals [with] whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub, and exploit.” May we come to a greater understanding of who we are and what we can become, by and through the scriptural and spiritual mentoring of our Savior.

1 NA Maxwell

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-27T00:12:00.000-08:00

As we pause from the "seeming routineness" of all things to celebrate a day of Thanksgiving, may we do so with tenderness and gratitude for what truly matters in our lives; that we might praise the Giver of life and all gifts therein. Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays as we are blessed to enjoy wonderful food and tender moments with family. Even so, and most importantly we are opportune to pause and view our lives with a refined lens of perspective. In spite of the pressing societal demands and commotion that abounds, we stop, take a breath and consider all that is that matters; and with grateful hearts, we render that which is all that we have to render, our heartfelt will, to Him. He who has given us all things. This is a time of harvest and thankfulness for the bounty in our lives, but equally important, it is also a time of planting in our hearts a tenderness and resolve to live with greater purpose and heartfelt appreciation and gratitude to our loving Heavenly Father for His tender mercies. May we be content with our allotment from our loving Father in Heaven, that we might know joy in the seasons of our lives, expressing always gratitude to Him and to all with whom we associate.

May the joy of Thanksgiving extend beyond the day and into our tomorrows, always!

Happy Thanksgiving to All!

We are off on holiday and may, if internet is available, post while enjoying our journey these next two weeks. If not, we will post upon our return.

Sabbath Reflections - Pure in Heart

2008-11-16T09:15:00.000-08:00

We recently returned from Carmel, Indiana having spent a few days with 4 of our grandkids. This week we are off to Dallas to spend some time with 3 more of our grandkids. Immediately upon our return from Dallas, we will have 4 more of our grandkids visit us in Sundance. And then we are off to Mesa for Thanksgiving to spend some time with 3 more. Amid the travel, we have spent time reading, playing, talking on the phone and enjoying the memorable moments. This morning Miles (2) called unbeknownst to his parents, and we were able to spend some time on the phone with Miles, Parker and Audrey. Amazingly, Sophie (2) has become quite adept at the iPhone as well. The tender moments arise whenever we receive an unexpected, but greatly appreciated, phone call from Mabel, Oliver, Emma, Annie, Jack, Max, Parker, Miles, Oliver, Audrey and each of these 14 precious souls. In reflecting upon our treasured moments with each of our grandchildren, I am reaffirmed in the scriptural references to children by the Master. The Savior tenderly entreats each of us to be as a little child (Matt 18:3-5), even to be "pure in heart." In looking upon these little ones, in talking with them, holding them and spending memorable moments with them - they truly are the "pure in heart." Without exception, these precious children are the joy of life; and we are counseled to become like them as recorded in Mosiah 3:19, "...and becometh a ⁱsaint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a ^jchild, ^ksubmissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father."

As the Savior is, so are they!

Amid the turmoil in our society, our hope lies in the hearts of these little ones. They bring a much needed perspective to each of us; their innocence and love unfeigned are without bounds, and their tender and willing forgiveness are exemplary for each of us. The infinite capacity within them to nurture, to love and to lift heavy hearts is without measure. Gratefully, the Lord tenderly entreats us to be like them. As parents there are those moments, but when we step back with perspective and love we see the hand of the Master in each of these little ones as we hold them or look into their eyes. They are His greatest joy, and they are ours! Hence, the immeasurable stewardship of trust endowed from above to nurture and care for them - to teach them of Christ and to love them. If any were a reflection of His tender and perfect love, it is they.

What joy there is in knowing that families are eternal - there is "joy in our posterity."

So important are children to the Him that He has set the consequence for any who would offend them in Matthew 18:6, hence my sorrow when I look about us in our society today and see the constancy of adversarial tendrils seeking to displace the purity of these little ones. Their vunerable innocence demands our vigilance and devotion, always. Their purity of heart demands our emulation. In reflecting upon their nature and purity, I am drawn to the Master and with a grateful heart, appreciate the tangible nature of His love manifest in them.

Sabbath Reflections - Perspective in Faith and Kindness

2008-11-08T21:17:00.000-08:00

We live in interesting times - at a minimum we can say that things are uncertain, even paraphrasing Dickens, "it is the best of times and it is the worst of times." We are in the midst of transitioning the leadership of our government from one party to another. We are facing turbulent and uncertain economic times, both in the USA and globally. The whole world seems to be in commotion. We have seen extremely contentious, bitter and divisive campaigns in our states and in our nation. There appears to be an emerging polarization in society between good and bad, and the contrary forces at hand are seeking to confuse one from the other. Because of such, there are those who seem to have lost their way in our society. A few on society's fringe have taken to the streets in protest of traditional societal standards and mores, while enticing others to join in under false pretense. The very core of our society has come under severe attack, marriage and family. Many are concerned and troubled amid the tumult and commotion, while others blindly fail to see. The distractions and contrary voices are as innumerable as the sands on the beach. As individuals and families, and as a society, we are faced with choices amid the defining moments of our times. What are we to do and how are we to respond?

It is imperative that we look with "perspective in faith" at the commotion about us, for within such we gain understanding and have hope in what is to come. That is not to say that things will temper and "all will be well," but to say that there is hope amid the confusion and contention, born of our perspective. And within such perspective we can respond accordingly, with kindness and love.

When studying the life of the Savior we gain a greater appreciation for His tender mercy and kindness amid contrary storms. He to whom the earth was His footstool, He who created all things and had power to do all things, willingly submitted to His father and condescended to man and this earth that He created because of His tender mercy. During His mortal ministry He lived amid significant tumult, disruption and confusion; He lived at a time of severe persecution, and yet He endured in love, in kindness and with an eternal view or perspective. He set the course and the example for each of us. Through the ages His prophets have done likewise. What is the foundation of His infinite capacity and their finite capacity to so live? Where can we find peace and calm amid the storms, be they small or significant? As persecutions have raged, as contrary seas have tormented man, and as individual and family circumstances and environments have burdened the soul, we can look with an eternal perspective as to what truly matters, and respond accordingly, in kindness and love. If what we are doing is of little consequence, in the eternal perspective, such that it won't matter 0ne hundred years from now, let it not trouble us beyond measure. Let us seek for the joy in living, "with perspective in faith."

Spencer W. Kimball in his text, Tragedy or Destiny, stated, "If we looked at mortality as the whole of existence, then pain, sorrow, failure, and short life would be calamity. But if we look upon life as an eternal thing stretching far into the premortal past and on into the eternal post-death future, then all happenings may be put in proper perspective. ...if we were to close the doors upon sorrow and distress, we might be excluding our greatest friends and benefactors." (Hebrews 5:8-9) "...Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me." (2 Corinthians 12:7, 9-10)

Perspective in faith is what enables us in all things and draws us nearer unto the Master, for in such we rely on His tender mercies and grace. As our proximity to Savior draws nearer, we respond in all things with greater kindness, love. appreciation and gratitude. I can recall sitting at the bedside of a friend who was about to succumb to a terrible cancer. While only moments from death she was more concerned for my comfort than she was her own. Her proximity to the Master, her understanding her mortality with perspective in faith carried her to exalted realms.

Gordon B. Hinckley said, "Let us reach out with love and kindness to those who would revile against us. ...In the spirit of the Christ who advised us to turn the other cheek, let us try to overcome evil with good."

We strive to be constant in the words of Philo of Alexandria, "Be kind, for everyone you meet is engaged in a great struggle."

Our capacity to extend greater kindness, love and charity is commensurate with our perspective in faith, and therein lies the capacity for greater joy.

Julianne - Happy Birthday!

2008-11-04T17:51:00.000-08:00

Twenty-four years ago a beautiful, brown-eyed little girl entered our world! Our lives have all been richly blessed by Julianne's unique, independent and capable spirit. We all love her ability to view the world from an intellectual and generous point of view. Julianne we are proud of you and miss you a lot!! We are not sure that Virginia is worthy of you but know that you will make your place in the world. Everyone will be able to say that we knew you when. Have a great day! We love you lots!

Sabbath Reflections - Obedience

2008-11-02T16:49:00.000-08:00

In the face of societal shifts and subtle nuances that tend to redefine good as bad and bad as good, it is reassuring amid the clouds of fog that hang low that we have constants, standards and divine principles with which to adhere. It isn't easy as "flaxen cord" temptations or persuasions tend to draw many away from eternal truths and principles. Although our society is like unto many in history, the destructive forces around us seem to be gathering strength, and at times they can be very persuasive. Even so, it is comforting to find safety and refuge within our homes and families amid the societal storms without. In our homes and families we are the determinants of our individual and family course. We determine what curriculum or subtle nuance we invite in. There are many that would seek to invade our safe havens of refuge, but at the end of the day, they have no cause of imposition unless we extend the invitation. The opportunities for inviting the subtleties of society into our homes are abundant, in Television, Music, the Internet, books, politics, language, contention and many other avenues or mediums. However, it is our heart, our attitude and our desire that determines ultimately what influence these societal shifts and impositions may have in our homes. The decisions we undertake in these defining moments are critical. If ever their was a time to stake our claim and establish a righteous home, a safe haven and refuge, a home that has righteous defenses to guard against the fiery darts that are constant in their barrage, it is now! If ever there was a time for obedience to divine and eternal principles and constants, it is now! And yet, there are many who straddle with a foot on both sides, whether they fail to see the line of demarcation or choose to ignore it. These are times that will try men's souls; these are times that will separate the wheat from the chaff; even times that will set our eternal course. Elder Neal A. Maxwell once stated of these societal shifts and our responses thereto, "...there are some who try to serve the Lord without offending the devil." Obedience to these divine directives may not make us popular in today's world, and may even draw the ire and even ridicule, at times, of friends and associates. But what price do we pay if we open the doors of our hearts and homes to the subtle (sometimes not so subtle) nuances of society's shifting winds? It is ours to decide, to be obedient to what is right and eternal, or to have enmity with the giver of the eternal gift. There is not a nuanced position.

In making decisions there is a story told of 5 frogs on a log; 4 decide to jump off. How many frogs remain on the log? Many would say 1, but the answer is 5; deciding to jump off and jumping off are not the same. Now is the time to decide, and in deciding - act, before the societal storms gather greater strength. Fortunately, amid these storms He who suffered all things for you and me, whose love for each of us is without measure, has given us wonderful resources with which we may draw strength. Resources that when applied, with exactnesss, become unbreachable defenses that protect our homes, our families and our hearts. Even so, it demands obedience with exactness. Obedience, a perfect attribute found in the Master, is what we should be striving to perfect in us. As He was obedient and willingly submissive, so should we be!

Our resources are abundant - we have the scriptures that provide answers and roadmaps to us today, they keep us grounded, when we search and ponder them with diligence; we have our tender supplications to a loving and wise Heavenly Father that loves us when we pray; we have the Sabbath day to recharge, renew and keep us grounded in Christ; we have our families that in drawing near unto us provide solace, strength and peace amid the outward storms; we have the Temples, Houses of the Lord, wherein we draw strength, inspiration and revelation to our personal needs; we have opportunities of service that provide perspective and selfless hearts; we have the Prophets of the latter-days whose counsel is constant in its declaration of truth and the realities of Christ; and we have Christ whose perfect empathy and love are constant in our lives. And yet, there are some, perhaps many, that fail to draw upon these resources. Be it through the buffettings of our society, our hope to not "offend the devil" or whatever the course may be, we struggle.

Harold B. Lee and Neal A. Maxwell have provided some critical counsel in this regard, which for some may be difficult. Notwithstanding, their counsel is applicable more today that at any other time in the past, as the nuances in our society today are clouding the course with a low lying fog.

President Harold B. Lee taught: “The power of Satan will increase; we see it in evidence on every hand. … “Now the only safety we have as members of this church is to do exactly what the Lord said to the Church in that day when the Church was organized. We must learn to give heed to the words and commandments that the Lord shall give through his prophet, ‘as he receiveth them, walking in all holiness before me; … as if from mine own mouth, in all patience and faith.’ (D&C 21:4–5.) There will be some things that take patience and faith. You may not like what comes from the authority of the Church. It may contradict your political views. It may contradict your social views. It may interfere with some of your social life. But if you listen to these things, as if from the mouth of the Lord himself, with patience and faith, the promise is that ‘the gates of hell shall not prevail against you; yea, and the Lord God will disperse the powers of darkness from before you, and cause the heavens to shake for your good, and his name’s glory.’ (D&C 21:6.)”

Elder Neal A. Maxwell stated: "Make no mistake about it, brothers and sisters, in the months and years ahead, events are likely to require each member to decide whether or not he will follow the First Presidency. Members will find it more difficult to halt longer between two opinions. President Marion G. Romney said, many years ago, that he had 'never hesitated to follow the counsel of the Authorities of the Church even though it crossed my social, professional or political life.'"This is hard doctrine, but it is particularly vital doctrine in a society which is becoming more wicked. In short, brothers and sisters, not being ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ includes not being ashamed of the prophets of Jesus Christ. . . . Your discipleship may see the time when such religious convictions are discounted. . . . This new irreligious imperialism seeks to disallow certain opinions simply because those opinions grow out of religious convictions."Resistance to abortion will be seen as primitive. Concern over the institution of the family will be viewed as untrendy and unenlightened....Before the ultimate victory of the forces of righteousness, some skirmishes will be lost. Even in these, however, let us leave a record so that the choices are clear, letting others do as they will in the face of prophetic counsel. There will also be times, happily, when a minor defeat seems probable, but others will step forward, having been rallied to rightness by what we do. We will know the joy, on occasion, of having awakened a slumbering majority of the decent people of all races and creeds which was,till then, unconscious of itself. Jesus said that when the fig trees put forth their leaves, 'summer is nigh.' Thus warned that summer is upon us, let us not then complain of the heat."

May we so live!

Sabbath Reflections - Patience

2008-10-26T14:14:00.000-07:00

Although pedestrian to many, patience stands as one of life's greatest virtues and a defining characteristic of Christ and our Heavenly Father who sent Him. And yet, patience is only developed through our experiential course in life. "The Lord simultaneously tries the patience of His people even as He tries their faith" (Mosiah
23:21). On our pathway of discipleship, it is through the refiner's fire that we are tried, tested and become more patient.

"Patience is not indifference. Actually, it is caring very much, but being willing, nevertheless, to submit both to the Lord and to what the scriptures call the “process of time.”

Patience is tied very closely to faith in our Heavenly Father. Actually, when we are unduly impatient, we are suggesting that we know what is best—better than does God. Or, at least, we are asserting that our timetable is better than his. Either way we are questioning the reality of God’s omniscience, as if, as some seem to believe, God were on some sort of postdoctoral fellowship.

Saint Teresa of Avila said that unless we come to know the reality of God, our mortal existence “will be no more than a night in a second-class hotel” (Malcolm Muggeridge, “The Great Liberal Death Wish,” Imprimis, Hillsdale College, Michigan, May 1979). Our second estate can be a first-class experience only if we have patient faith in God and his unfolding purposes."1

Paul wrote to the Hebrews, "For ye have need of ^apatience, that, after ye have done the ^bwill of God, ye might receive the ^cpromise" (Heb. 10:36). The enduring and patient do not become weary amid the struggle, and yet how often in our striving to endure do we falter and become wearied under the stress and burden of it all? Even so, at the inflection point of default, if we are "yoked" with Him who is perfectly patient, we will be lifted up and enabled even unto our "enduring well," for it is by and through the refiner's love and perfect empathy that we are perfected in our patience, for the moment. And it is in our continued striving and enduring well amid recurring experiential moments that patience becomes perfected in us. Paul further counseled, "...run with patience the race that is set before us" (Heb 12:1) - it is not a sprint.

"Patience is not only a companion of faith but is also a friend to free agency. Inside our impatience there is sometimes an ugly reality: We are plainly irritated and inconvenienced by the need to make allowances for the free agency of others. In our impatience, which is not the same thing as divine discontent, we would override others, even though it is obvious that our individual differences and preferences are so irretrievably enmeshed with each other that the only resolution which preserves free agency is for us to be patient and long-suffering with each other.

The passage of time is not, by itself, an automatic cure for bad choices. But often individuals, like the prodigal son, can “in process of time” come to their senses. The touching reunion of Jacob and Esau in the desert—so many years after their youthful rivalry, is a classic example of how generosity can replace animosity when truth is mixed with time (see Gen. 33).

When we are unduly impatient, however, we are, in effect, trying to hasten an outcome when acceleration would abuse agency. Enoch, brilliant, submissive, and spiritual, knew what it meant to see a whole city-culture advance in “process of time.” He could tell us so much about so many things, including patience.

Patience makes possible a personal spiritual symmetry which arises only from prolonged obedience within free agency!

There is also a dimension of patience which links it to a special reverence for life. Patience is a willingness, in a sense, to watch the unfolding purposes of God with a sense of wonder and awe—rather than pacing up and down within the cell of our circumstance.

Too much anxious opening of the oven door and the cake falls instead of rising! So it is with us. If we are always selfishly taking our temperature to see if we are happy, we won’t be.

When we are impatient, we are neither reverential nor reflective because we are too self-centered. Whereas faith and patience are companions, so are selfishness and impatience."1

Contrarily, there is a calming influence in our lives when patient and within such we are tutored and enhanced in our capacities to do that which is asked of us. Many in our society today are absorbed with self interest, seeking for immediacy and instant gratification and/or response, whereas the willingly patient who defers to the process of the Lord's time receives the ultimate reward. The hallmark of individual maturity and self mastery is the one who willingly accepts and acknowledges, with patience, the deferred dividends thereof. It is also in these calming patient moments that we discover greater opportunity for discernment as to what truly matters and "what mattereth not," that we like Mary may choose the "good part" (Luke 10:42)

"Patience helps us to use, rather than protest, [the] seeming flat periods of life, becoming filled with quiet wonder over the past and with anticipation for that which may lie ahead, instead of demeaning the particular flatness through which we may be passing at the time.

We should savor even the seemingly ordinary times, for life cannot be made up of all kettledrums and crashing cymbals. There must be some flutes and violins. Living cannot be all crescendo; there must be some counterpoint.

Clearly, without patience, we will learn less in life. We will see less. We will feel less. We will hear less. Ironically, rush and more usually mean less. The pressures of now, time and time again, go against the grain of the gospel with its eternalism.

The patient person assumes that what others have to say is worth listening to. A patient person is not so chronically eager to put forth his own ideas. In true humility, we do some waiting upon others. We value them for what they say and what they have to contribute. Patience and humility are special friends."1

Amid our struggles and personal experiences our patience is tried, tested and refined, whether such struggles are significant or routine, such is the pathway of the disciple. Patience enables and strengthens our faith when we are caught in boisterous winds or stormy seas, and though we may feel that we are being tossed to and fro, we are progressing along the pathway. As written in Romans, "tribulation worketh patience," and it shall "be for our good."

“For what glory is it, if, when ye be buffeted for your faults, ye shall take it patiently? but if, when ye do well, and suffer for it, ye take it patiently, this is acceptable with God” (1 Pet. 2:20).

May we be constant in our striving, recognizing the interdependence of all Christlike attributes, with further acknowledgement of the foundational nature of meekness, patience, faith and obedience.

1 NA Maxwell

Catching Up

2008-10-21T18:20:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago we trundled south in the Jammer, leaving the uncommon beauty of Sundance to share in some special moments with our extended family. Not only a celebration of my dad's 80th, but a celebration of his and my mother's contribution to Chapman University, and more importantly to their progeny. Thanks to everyone who made the sacrifice, both in coming and going without those that they loved, that they might attend. It was great seeing everyone and spending a short day at Disneyland. Fortunately, we had to Padawan's to watch over us! A few photos stolen from the files of our family.

At 80 you can wear anything and get away with it!

After defeating Darth Vader

Where it all began - what's with the mustaches? A great day!

Lauren and the girls

Why families matter - that which is of greatest worth!

Sabbath Reflections - Meekness

2008-10-19T17:48:00.000-07:00

Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. (Matthew 5:5)

“Meekness is one of the attributes of Deity. Instructively, Jesus, our Lord and exemplar, called attention to Himself as being ‘meek and lowly in heart.’ (Matt. 11:29.) Paul extolled the ‘meekness and gentleness of Christ.’ (2 Cor. 10:1.) The Greek rendition of the word meek in the New Testament, by the way, is ‘gentle and humble.’”1

Meekness is needed in order to be spiritually successful, whether in matters of the intellect, in the management of power, in the dissolution of personal pride, or in coping with the challenges of daily life. Jesus, the carpenter – who, with Joseph "undoubtedly had experiences making yokes" – gave us that marvelous metaphor. "Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart." (Matt. 11:28-30.)

“Actually, meekness is not an attribute which is essential only in itself, said Moroni. It is also vital because one cannot develop those other crucial virtues—faith, hope, and charity—without meekness.
In the ecology of the eternal attributes, these cardinal characteristics are inextricably bound up together. Among them, meekness is often the initiator, facilitator, and consolidator. In fact, if one needs any further persuasion as to how vital this virtue is, Moroni warned, “none is acceptable before God, save the meek and lowly in heart.” (Moro. 7:43–44.) If we could but believe, really believe, in the reality of that bold but accurate declaration, you and I would find ourselves focusing on the crucial rather than the marginal tasks in life! We would then cease pursuing lifestyles which, inevitably and irrevocably, are going out of style!”1

As noted in Matthew we are tenderly entreated to Come, to learn and to know our Savior and Redeemer, to become one with Him. If we submissively heed the counsel offered, we are promised peace, or rest unto our souls, being a spiritual rest or comfort. Notwithstanding, it requires a proactive effort on our part to, learn of Him, to know Him and to be one with Him. In repetition, it is interesting to note that of all the qualities perfected in Christ, He encourages us in our own perfection by stating, in conjunction with the tender call to “come unto Him,” that He is “meek and lowly.” Of all His qualities, He highlights that of being meek and lowly with the clarion call that such is what we should become. For it is in meekness and humility that we become submissive. And it is in submissiveness that we become obedient and teachable. Therefore meekness becomes the basis of our progression on the pathway of discipleship, thereby leading to a submissive heart. And it is with a submissive heart that we become one with the Master and our Heavenly Father.

Even so, as counseled by further by Mosiah, we must “become as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father.” (Mosiah 3:19)

We must adopt the perspective of spiritual beings in a human, or “natural man,” environment, rather than human beings seeking for a spiritual environment. Accepting the atoning gift, freely and submissively given by He whose love is infinite, can only be accomplished in meekness and submissiveness.

Fundamental to the development of Celestial Attributes, or in our discipleship to He whose love for us was manifest in His Atoning sacrifice, is the foundational attribute of meekness. Gordon B. Hinckley said, “Meekness implies a spirit of gratitude as opposed to an attitude of self-sufficiency, an acknowledgment of a greater power beyond oneself, a recognition of God, and an acceptance of his commandments” (“With All Thy Getting Get Understanding,” Ensign, Aug. 1988, 3–4).

Notwithstanding the tugs and pulls of the world that would have us believe there is strength and reward in pride, even the bounty of the earth, it is ironic that in the antithesis of pride or in Meekness, the meek will inherit the earth.

1Neal A. Maxwell

A Slippery Slope - Home school in our future?

2008-10-19T17:42:00.000-07:00

The previous post was poignant with humor. Although a more serious view, the video below is worth the watch and illustrates the reality of the slippery slope if we fail in passing Prop 8 in California.

Please support the effort by going to the Protect Marriage website.

Proposition 8 and Why it Matters - California's Ridiculous New Marriage Laws

2008-10-14T22:44:00.000-07:00

Although a serious and critical issue facing voters in California, below is a humorous and enlightening bit on how ridiculous California's New Laws on Marriage have become.

Enjoy, but please take this issue seriously and spread the word. Our nation cannot abide the fallout of California's judicial follies!

Sabbath Reflections - Celestial Attributes

2008-10-12T19:33:00.001-07:00

In pondering the prospects of this Sabbath Reflection and those that are to follow, my thoughts have turned to reflections past. For many years I have pondered upon the divine and perfected character traits of the Savior, and His charge that we become like He and His Father, even perfect (Matt 5:48, 3 Nephi 12:48). To be so will be born of our personal desire to emulate Him in all things, even unto our striving to become men and women of Christ through the development of that which is perfect in Him. Even so and notwithstanding our desires we can only become as He is by and through His Atoning Love and Sacrifice born for each of us so many years ago. It is in His tender mercy and grace that we are enabled with capacity to meet the full measure of our creation and know the joy He desires in us. The efficacy of His Atoning Love conjoined with a willingness to yield our hearts unto Him, even unto our striving emulation of our Friend and Master, determine where we are on our pathway to discipleship.

“The traits of character to be focused on in the precious process of character building are all interactive; development of one hastens the development of another. You are likely to be doing much better than you realize. Paul notes one spiritual sequence when he says, “Tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope” (Rom. 5:3–4), and hope brings more of the love of God. If you and I will meekly submit to “our light affliction,” whatever it is, this will lead later to a far greater “weight of glory” (2 Cor. 4:17).

The development of Christlike character clearly qualifies as truly being “about [our] Father’s business” (Luke 2:49). The wonderful thing about this process is that amid the seeming mundaneness of daily life we can be about our Father’s business day by day, achieving imperishable things to be taken with us through the veil of death and to rise with us in the Resurrection.” Neal A. Maxwell

As disciples of the Master we can still, and must, live in the world and not be of it. As men and women of Christ we are, as stated in Ephesians 4, to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted and forgiving." Howard W. Hunter further counseled us to “treat each other with more kindness, more courtesy, more humility and patience and forgiveness.” Our ability to do so is wholly dependent upon our discipleship in Christ, or in effect our proximity to the Savior.

In the coming weeks it is my hope that these Sabbath Reflections will focus on specific celestial attributes of Christ, such as love, patience, mercy, meekness, forgiveness, submissiveness …, all of which embody that which we are to become. As further stated by Neal Maxwell, “…They are not just a litany of qualities to be recited; Awareness of them—even articulate awareness—without their application will not do. The divine attributes of love, mercy, patience, submissiveness, meekness, purity, and others are attributes we have been directed to develop in each of us (see 3 Ne. 27:27; Mosiah 3:19)—and they cannot be developed in the abstract. These require the clinical experiences—those things through which we are asked to pass. Nor can these attributes be developed in a hurry. Thus the scripture says, “All these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good” (Doctrine and Covenants 122:7), referring to the mix of mortal experiences, immortal individuals, and immortal principles. When that interplay occurs and we see things through the lens of the gospel, then we can see more clearly and navigate the road of discipleship. The relevant experiences are required, even when you and I would try to avoid them. Moreover, in an ultimate sense our individual developmental schedules reflect God’s timetable, not ours, for God will not withhold from us certain growing experiences that He, in His infinite wisdom, allows us to undergo for our eternal benefit. His timetable, if followed, prepares us incrementally for the journey of discipleship and for going home.”

Truly we are in the midst of challenging times and many are struggling; parents are overwhelmed, marriages are taxed, families stressed and at times dysfunctional, markets and economies are in disarray, and the situational and shifting standards of our society bear sway on the hearts of good and hopeful people. Whatever lot we are facing today, there needn’t be fear, despair or despondency as would be the hope of the adversary who desireth “that all men might be miserable like unto himself.” (2 Ne. 2:27) For in our tutorials there is a greater hope that manifests itself in resplendent joy as we apply the principles of obedience, discipleship and perspective and thus realize the abundant bounty in the Savior’s plan of happiness.

Notwithstanding our individual tutorials in life, we must remain valiant and constant in our striving with assurance of the tender mercies and love without measure of He who gave all in Gethsemane and on Calgary. We may not “know the meaning of all things” (1 Ne. 11:17), but we persevere notwithstanding, and in our enduring with yielded hearts we can know a tender peace and joy amid the sorrows and trials. As significant as the demanding tuition may be, we are strengthened and enabled in our enduring well when we are yoked with the Master. It is in our striving emulation in becoming as He is, even in developing His divinely perfected character traits that our well of capacity is filled beyond measure resulting in the promised rest. (Matt 11:28-30)

Sabbath Reflections - Prophets in Our Day

2008-10-10T09:07:00.000-07:00

This Sabbath Reflection comes a little late as we have been traveling and enjoying the blessings of family. Even so, last Sunday was a great day for reflection.

During the past 12 months, and even more so in the past 30 days, we have seen a constant barrage from the purveyors of news and information - fear and panic are sweeping the global capital markets and a serious recession, even depression, is upon us; society has fallen into a fractured and partisan state of liberal and conservative thought; contention abounds in the intellectual circles of society over social policy, and on and on... It is among the headlines of the day that we, at times, can be overwhelmed, distracted and even disillusioned with what the future holds. Some are even proffering that the end is near, having become consumed within the myopia of panic and fear. Many have become so debilitated by fear and panic that they have severely limited their capacity to function in the ordinary course. Even so, amid the tumult of it all, it is by patience with hope that we have the capacity to endure well.

We are a blessed and abundant people in that which truly matters, and in that which doesn't really matter. In spite of the doom and gloom prognosticators, we live in an abundant time! We live in a nation endowed by a loving Heavenly Father with freedom and capacity. We are an educated and capable people with tremendous resource and means. We live in a time foretold, and time when all things shall be fulfilled. We have Prophets in our day to guide, counsel and lead us. But to what end, and in what manner are we to live? The constantly shifting and situational standards of society would have us think that it was all about us. Contrarily, where much is given much is expected. Thankfully there is a constant and unified voice; the conjoining of the still small, but piercing voice of the Spirit and that of the Prophets who stand as especial witnesses of the Master. Be we members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints or not, the messages from the Prophets have profound application.

It is an interesting exercise to study the recent spoken words of the Prophets and how they compare with the turmoils of today. Illustrated below is the text given by President Gordon B. Hinckley in October General Conference 2002:

"... I wish to mention is family home evening. We are fearful that this very important program is fading in too many areas. Brethren, there is nothing more important than your families. You know that. This program was begun back in 1915, 87 years ago, when President Joseph F. Smith urged the Latter-day Saints to set aside one evening a week devoted specifically to the family. It was to be a time of teaching, of reading the scriptures, of cultivating talents, of discussing family matters. It was not to be a time to attend athletic events or anything of the kind. Of course, if there is family activity of such a kind occasionally, that may be all right. But in the increasingly frantic rush of our lives it is so important that fathers and mothers sit down with their children, pray together, instruct them in the ways of the Lord, consider their family problems, and let the children express their talents. I am satisfied that this program came under the revelations of the Lord in response to a need among the families of the Church.

If there was a need 87 years ago, that need is certainly much greater today.

The decision was made that Monday evening would be devoted to this family activity. In those areas where there are large numbers of Church members, school officials and others honored the program and did not schedule events on that evening.

Now there appears to be a growing tendency to schedule other events on Monday night. We respectfully request that our public school officials and others let us have this one evening a week to carry forward this important and traditional program. We ask that they not schedule events that will require the time of children on Monday evenings. We are confident that they will realize that it is most important that families have the opportunity, at least once a week, to be together without conflicting loyalties. We shall be grateful indeed if they will cooperate in this matter. And we urge, in the strongest terms possible, that fathers and mothers regard most seriously this opportunity and challenge to make of Monday evening a time sacred to the family.

I have received not a few invitations to participate in community Monday gatherings of one kind or another. I have uniformly turned down these invitations with appreciation, but with the explanation that I have reserved Monday as family home evening time. I earnestly hope that each of you will do the same.

The next item.

...I wish to urge again the importance of self-reliance on the part of every individual Church member and family.

None of us knows when a catastrophe might strike. Sickness, injury, unemployment may affect any of us.

We have a great welfare program with facilities for such things as grain storage in various areas. It is important that we do this. But the best place to have some food set aside is within our homes, together with a little money in savings. The best welfare program is our own welfare program. Five or six cans of wheat in the home are better than a bushel in the welfare granary.

I do not predict any impending disaster. I hope that there will not be one. But prudence should govern our lives. Everyone who owns a home recognizes the need for fire insurance. We hope and pray that there will never be a fire. Nevertheless, we pay for insurance to cover such a catastrophe, should it occur.

We ought to do the same with reference to family welfare.

We can begin ever so modestly. We can begin with a one week’s food supply and gradually build it to a month, and then to three months. I am speaking now of food to cover basic needs. As all of you recognize, this counsel is not new. But I fear that so many feel that a long-term food supply is so far beyond their reach that they make no effort at all.

Begin in a small way, my brethren, and gradually build toward a reasonable objective. Save a little money regularly, and you will be surprised how it accumulates.

Get out of debt and rid yourself of the terrible bondage that debt brings.

We hear much about second mortgages. Now I am told there are third mortgages.

Discipline yourselves in matters of spending, in matters of borrowing, in practices that lead to bankruptcy and the agony that comes therewith."

May we take note with the counsel given this past weekend, and with Hope, know the peace that can be ours; that we might be free of contention, fear and the consequences born in a society that defines good as bad and bad as good; that we might love and serve our families and neighbors; that we might be prepared in all things, temporal and spiritual. May we take comfort by abiding in obedience the truths taught of He who seeks only for our happiness and return to our Heavenly home, that we may know the peace and calm amid boisterous winds and stormy seas.

Sabbath Reflections - ...Content with our Allotment

2008-09-28T17:19:00.000-07:00

Having been comforted years ago by a friend when dealing with a terminal cancer, I sought to return my friends charity when he was later diagnosed with a similar disease (for which he subsequently succumbed). When sharing a brief note with him, he tenderly responded, quoting from the scriptures, "... I [am] content with the things which the Lord hath allotted unto me." In pondering his response and reflecting on such today, I am reminded of the tenderness and loving empathy of the Master, and what is expected.

Neal Maxwell wrote: Life’s necessary defining moments come within our allotments. … Our responses are what matter. Sufficient unto each life are the tests thereof! (see Matt. 6:34)

We are to do what we can within our allotted “acreage,” while still using whatever stretch there may be in any tethers. Within what is allotted to us, we can have spiritual contentment. Paul described it as “godliness with contentment,” signifying the adequate presence of attributes such as love, hope, meekness, patience, and submissiveness (1 Tim. 6:6).

Yet there are other fixed limitations in life. For instance, some have allotments including physical, mental, or geographic constraints. There are those who are unmarried, through no fault of their own, or yearning but childless couples. Still others face persistent and unreconciled relationships within their circles of loved ones, including offspring who have “[become] for themselves,” resistant to parental counsel. In such and similar situations, there are so many prickly and daily reminders.

Being content means acceptance without self-pity. Meekly borne, however, deprivations such as these can end up being like excavations that make room for greatly enlarged souls.”

And so it is that we ought to be content in our striving and within what is allotted! Although we may not know our personal or familial allotments (acreage), our loving Heavenly Father does, as does His Son. Whatever our course in life, we will not be challenged beyond our allotment or capacity. Even so, it is incumbent upon us to strive to meet the full measure of our creation within the bounds He has set for each of us individually; born of His love and accepting in meekness and love the divine tutoring that may well come. It doesn’t demand that we seek for more, nor less, but find contentment in striving within our given allotment to meet our full measure, even becoming one with the Master. His compensatory love and sacrifice are beyond sufficient when our hearts are yielded to Him accordingly.

We often find that we become frustrated and grow weary when faced with the challenge, at times, in reaching "beyond the mark;" in our expectations and in our hopes, thinking that it is incumbent upon us to exceed that which is given. We find ourselves over extended and running faster than we have strength. We think we are achieving or striving to achieve our personal expectation, when in reality we are reaching beyond that of He who has sent us. Our contentment comes when we are mutually aligned or one with Him, and grateful for the allotment given by and through His tender mercy.

"O that I were an angel, and could have the wish of mine heart, that I might go forth and speak with the trump of God, with a voice to shake the earth, and cry repentance unto every people! Yea, I would declare unto every soul, as with the voice of thunder, repentance and the plan of redemption, that they should repent and come unto our God, that there might not be more sorrow upon all the face of the earth. But behold, I am a man, and do sin in my wish; for I ought to be content with the things which the Lord hath allotted unto me." (Alma 29:1-3)

It is difficult at times, but the requirement lovingly sought, is for our willingness to yield a broken heart and contrite spirit to He who gave all, even the last full measure, to His friends – you and me. May we find peace in so doing, that we might endure well and have joy therein!

Sabbath Reflections - Gratitude

2008-09-21T07:08:00.000-07:00

Robert W. Woodruff, a prominent business leader of a former time, toured the United States giving a lecture which he entitled “A Capsule Course in Human Relations.” In his message, he said that the two most important words in the English language are these: “Thank you.”1 In today's society, the words "thank you" or other expressions of gratitude are often passed by, not for wont of expression, but perhaps in feeling it unnecessary or a given. Even so, gratitude, when offered in sincerity renders to the heart of both the giver and the receiver a tenderness unmeasured. Expressions of gratitude reflect a sense of meekness and meekness is fundamental to our development of Christ-like attributes, even our discipleship. Gratitude expressed in sincerity, is a heartfelt reflection of appreciation for kindness and service rendered. It is an acknowledgement of praise, respect, honor and reverence. It further acknowledges our love for the giver of gifts and/or service. The absence of gratitude expressed is illustrative of disdain, enmity and pride.

Surely, as we look with perspective in our lives, there is nothing of which we have, materially or otherwise, that hasn't been given willingly to us. The air we breathe, the beauties of the earth, the physical capacities that we enjoy, the relationships that render joy to our hearts, the very essence of life and the tender mercies therein are precious gifts of a loving Heavenly Father and His Atoning Son. We are nothing, but for Their tender mercies and gracious love. As recorded in scripture, "O Lord my God, I will give thanks unto thee for ever" (Ps 30:12); "And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things, and obey not his commandments." (D&C 59:21)

Heavenly Father and Christ, in Their infinite love and mercy, offer to us daily all that is needful for our eternal joy. When we "come unto" our Heavenly Father and Christ through our meek and humble supplications in prayer and fasting, we are expressing our gratitude to Them for all things and we are further enabled by Them in all things, even in our ability to "endure well" all things.

The infinite love of our Father and the Savior, at times are incomprehensible. However, the scriptures offer poignant glimpses to the love which they have and share with us. We can better understand this love and why Christ wept as He did, when we read the account of His visit to the Americas long ago -

"And they arose from the earth, and he [being Christ] said unto them: Blessed are ye because of your faith. And now my joy is full. And when he had said these words, he wept, and the multitude bare record of it, and he took their little children, one by one, and blessed them, and prayed unto the Father for them. And when he had done this he wept again." (3 NE 17:20-24)

His joy was full because of the devotions and love of His children, and He wept. Should we not also strive for His joyful weeping as a manifestation of our devotions. How grateful we should be for the scriptures and the perspective and understanding they bring. Further, there is great comfort in David, the Psalmist.

"Be still and know that I am God" (PSALM 46:10)

He is there and He knows and feels our pain, our challenges, our grief and our suffering. He can and does bring peace, joy and comfort in times of need. He that took all things upon Him, can and does give comfort and strength, even that which is necessary to enable us not only to endure, but endure well continually, if we will but let Him - if we will but let Him. We are promised in the scriptures, that He stands ready, we must then follow the counsel given, to learn of him, to come unto to him, to trust him and to love him. He cares and loves each of us.

When faced with challenges whether significant or routine, we can learn from the prophets of old and the prophets of latter days, thereby strengthening our faith. The Psalm of Nephi in 2nd Nephi chapter 4 states:

"Nevertheless, notwithstanding the great goodness of the Lord, in showing me his great and marvelous works, my heart exclaimeth: O wretched man that I am! Yea, my heart sorroweth because of my flesh; my soul grieveth because of mine iniquities. I am encompassed about, because of the temptations and the sins which so easily beset me.
And when I desire to rejoice, my heart groaneth because of my sins; nevertheless, I know in whom I have trusted. My God hath been my support; he hath led me through mine afflictions....He hath filled me with his love...Behold He hasth heard my cry by day..." (2 NE 4:17-30)

How then and what then is expected of us? What are we to do? We must pause regularly from our activities in the world, and re-evaluate our progress on the pathway of faith towards discipleship. We must chose a righteous path in his life, departing from the ways of the world, and serve our Heavenly Father and Christ. Our lives must be lives of meekness and submissiveness to our Heavenly Father and Christ. We must acknowledge and evidence our commitment to serve God the Father and His Son through our service to others. We must evidence our faith and trust in our Heavenly Father and His Son, manifest in our desire to serve Them. We must not experience the world but experience life in its most joyous and blessed way, by rendering service to the sons and daughters of Heavenly Father, that we might fully experience our faith in, and love of, Christ. And above all, we must, born in sincerety, give thanks thereto; not only to He who tenderly and lovingly gives all, but to all that we meet.

The beauty and eloquence of an expression of gratitude is further reflected in a newspaper story of some years ago:
The District of Columbia police auctioned off about 100 unclaimed bicycles Friday. “One dollar,” said an 11-year-old boy as the bidding opened on the first bike. The bidding, however, went much higher. “One dollar,” the boy repeated hopefully each time another bike came up. The auctioneer, who had been auctioning stolen or lost bikes for 43 years, noticed that the boy’s hopes seemed to soar higher whenever a racer-type bicycle was put up. Then there was just one racer left. The bidding went to eight dollars. “Sold to that boy over there for nine dollars!” said the auctioneer. He took eight dollars from his own pocket and asked the boy for his dollar. The youngster turned it over in pennies, nickels, dimes, and quarters—took his bike, and started to leave. But he went only a few feet. Carefully parking his new possession, he went back, gratefully threw his arms around the auctioneer’s neck, and cried. When was the last time we felt gratitude as deeply as did this boy? The deeds others perform in our behalf might not be as poignant, but certainly there are kind acts that warrant our expressions of gratitude.1

May our hearts be filled with gratitude and the constancy of our kind and tender expressions of thankfulness. I appreciate Leslie's Grateful Sunday posts.

1 TS Monson

Calm amid Stormy Markets

2008-09-20T14:56:00.000-07:00

Some of the comments proffered this week amid the market upheaval have been interesting. Some have even said, "this is it, the beginning of the end of all things." Surely we are in tumultuous times and there is a commotion about the capital markets, but it is not the beginning of the end of all things. There can be calm amid the stormy markets, if we have perspective and are sufficiently prepared.

The global capital markets have provided an interesting and even scary ride this past week. Market upheavals are never fun, nor are they sought for events. Even so, given the nature of man, market upheavals are necessary events in our domestic and global societies. Market corrections are necessary because we tend to push the envelope and reach beyond reasoned bounds. To many this week has been revelatory and has exposed the excesses in our capital market society. Some have said that this past week was like unto the depression of 1929, really? Yes, we have been here before, and we will be here again - such is the nature of markets. You only get hurt on a roller coaster if you jump off. As scary as the ride may be, we usually arrive safely where we began. The rule in market corrections is not to jump off and endure the ride.

In spite of these corrections, our markets and economies are fundamentally strong. Foundationally, they are built on correct free market and economic principles, proven and tested over time. Notwithstanding, the US Treasury can meet its measure by needed intercession to restore market confidence if the corrections are perceived as potentially irreparable. In its bailout of AIG, the Treasury acted appropriately. The shareholders and management of AIG will bear the consequence of their folly, but given the security and equity interests taken, liquidity restored and markets stabilized the Treasury (US taxpayers) will benefit handsomely when AIG is repatriated in the free market.

I can recall in the mid 70's when mortgage rates were at 15%, overnight bank rates exceeded 20%, the 20 year Treasury Note hit 9%, the DJIA was around 600 (it is now 11,400), the government stepped in an bailed out Chrysler with $1.2 billion in loan guaranties, and many thought we were doomed. Many thought the Chrysler bailout was a failed policy in spite of the nearly $500 million in profit to the Treasury in later years. The policy wasn't a failed policy as it restored confidence in the markets. The failed policy was the auto industry's unwillingness to change its much needed business strategy, thinking it could continue business as usual. Again in the 1980's we faced the S&L crisis which cost the nation dearly. The government bail out the S&L industry, again, was critical in restoring market confidence. Even so, what did we learn? Very little. The unfortunate consequence of past corrections is always reflected in future events. Corrections reset the bar but have done little to change the underpinning nature of the players. Hopefully, this correction will cause us to learn from our errant behaviors, although unlikely.

Surely, we will see future corrections, and most likely more often. Therefore, it is incumbent upon all to be measured, reasoned and conservative in our financial houses - not reaching beyond our capacities and setting our storehouses in order to better enable our enduring of the storms ahead. We must limit our personal debts, set aside capital reserves, improve the depth of our food stores and live with prudence and within our means. We have been counseled by prophets in these latter days to be provident in our living and to build our storehouses, for tumultuous times are coming. This past week sufficiently illustrates the point.

80

2008-09-18T21:59:00.001-07:00

Eighty years ago today, my father was born. As a young teen he was raised by his sisters, who cared for and mothered him, while his parents were elsewhere. Following an early entry into the military in his late teens, he became a self made man in all respects. It was life's tutoring moments in his early years that shaped and molded him as a man of kindness, meekness, integrity, trust, honor and capacity. He is truly loved and appreciated by all who know him. He is a true friend to many, which speaks for itself, as his friendships have been lifelong, whether from his days in the military, his corporate life, or associations along the pathway of life. As a self-made man, he overcame the difficult challenges of growing up without the mentoring of loving parents, served in the military, worked his way through college and graduate school, and rose to the top in every organization he was ever associated with. Even so, he was never willing to compromise the principles that mattered, choosing integrity over convenience and accommodation. It is through my father's tutoring example that I have learned the invaluable character traits of hard work, honesty and integrity, fidelity and devotion to what is right, kindness and compassion, patience and tenderness. Through him, I learned to love the ocean and sailing. By and through his counsel, I chose my profession. When I was baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, it was my father who sat with me and counseled me about obedience to gospel principles, even in the paying of tithes and offerings. There are vivid moments in my memory, sitting with my dad to discuss career and educational choices, listening to his counsel regarding my commitment to the Savior when I chose to enter the waters of baptism, being coached by him in little league and on the basketball court, caddying for him on the golf course and knowing he would always ask me which club he should use (always an 8 iron), and teaching me to sail and find joy on the calming waters of the Pacific... Never lacking his support and confidence, and feeling his encouragement in all things, I appreciate my Dad and am forever grateful that he is my father.

Dad, for one who never personally experienced the loving and mentoring care of a parent in your life, you have surely met the full measure of your creation as my father and as a father to Bob and Dan. Thanks for being there and helping me to become who I am today. Happy 80th birthday! I love you!

Sabbath Reflections - Pondering and Perspective

2008-09-14T23:00:00.000-07:00

These are challenging and tutorial times! Amid the commotion and noise; whether in the real estate and financial markets, the devastating storms in the gulf coast, the travails in the personal lives of family and friends, the political and global uncertainties, or in the "seeming routineness" of everyday living, the tugs and pulls of the world become ever so real and at times daunting and overwhelming. Our prayerful nights and mornings have become extended as we seek efficacy in the intervening and atoning love of the Master for those whose trials and tribulations weigh heavy in their hearts. These truly are tumultuous times! Even so, it is amid the tumult and commotion, or in our defining midnight moments that we are either strengthened in our faith, resolve and steadfastness to what truly matters, or, diminished, frustrated and compromised in our capacity to endure well.

What marks the difference in our enduring well?

Although not an expert in trial and tribulation, we have had our share over the years, and I suspect there is more to come in the future. When I contracted lymphoma years ago, a question was offered by a loving friend; why you? My response was simple, why not me? What would possess me to think that I, of all people, would be exempt from the trials of the world. Surely, our Savior and Friend, perfect in every way suffered such that He bled from every pore. If He being perfect suffered more than any, and as the only one who could take upon Him what He did, why is it that any of us should be exempt, for we are far from perfect and have much to learn from our tutorial trials in life. It is His suffering for us that has enabled His perfect empathy, such that He can and does succor us in our trials, rendering the needed tender mercies and sweet comfort that eases our pains and burdens. Notwithstanding, how often are we so consumed and distracted by our trials in life that we fail to be tutored, fail to be comforted and fail to embrace His tender mercies? Our elective submission is the necessary qualifier, to let go and trust Him implicitly and explicitly. It is all that He asks, and the only thing we can give; simply allowing our heart and will to be swallowed up in His.

Our capacity to endure well, to be tutored, comforted and recipients of His tender mercy reside in our quiet ponderings, in our reflective and meditative moments, where we seek for greater understanding and heartfelt tutoring and comfort. It is in our midnight moments, with meekness and humility, that we draw strength and capacity to endure well, from He that endured all things well. Be it in our prayerful moments, or in the simple stillness of quiet solitude wherein we ponder that which truly matters, our petitions are heard and rest and comfort are obtained. It is that we should "Be Still and Know that He is [I am] God." (Psalm 46:10) A further counseled in Matthew, "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find ^frest unto your souls. For my yoke is ^aeasy, and my burden is light." Can we ever doubt His love and capacity to comfort? The irony rests in our letting go and trusting, when our natural man state would tell us otherwise. It is in our Pondering that we gain Perspective, recognizing that which matters and on whom we should rely.

Additionally as written so eloquently in scripture: "If thou art called to pass through tribulation; if thou art in perils among false brethren; if thou art in perils among robbers; if thou art in perils by land or by sea; If thou art accused with all manner of false accusations; if thine enemies fall upon thee; if they tear thee from the society of thy father and mother and brethren and sisters; and if with a drawn sword thine enemies tear thee from the bosom of thy wife, and of thine offspring, and thine elder son, although but six years of age, shall cling to thy garments, and shall say, My father, my father, why can’t you stay with us? O, my father, what are the men going to do with you? and if then he shall be thrust from thee by the sword, and thou be dragged to prison, and thine enemies prowl around thee like wolves for the blood of the lamb; And if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or into the hands of murderers, and the sentence of death passed upon thee; if thou be cast into the deep; if the billowing surge conspire against thee; if fierce winds become thine enemy; if the heavens gather blackness, and all the elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good. The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?...Thy days are known, and thy years shall not be numbered less; therefore, fear not what man can do, for God shall be with you forever and ever."

Amid the tumult and commotion of all things, may we each pause to ponder and quietly reflect and meditate on that precious gift given to each of us so long ago; drawing strength, comfort and capacity, such that His tender mercies may enable us in our enduring well. It is in these tutoring moments that we draw from the well of perspective, whereby we are enabled to chart our course through the boisterous winds and troubled seas.

Sabbath Reflections - Remembering

2008-09-07T14:43:00.000-07:00

Remembering provides a great tutorial in life. Our son, Lincoln, made mention of an interesting fact when studying chemistry, that our memories are the sum of neurological and chemical reactions in our brains. And, yet our memories are visually evident, real and impacting, and can become great tutorials in life. Whether the quiet reflections from listening to familiar music being sung or played, or reflecting upon familiar environs, words or phrases spoken, our minds hearken back to personal experiences or memories that have touched us in some way. Whenever I hear Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young sing "Teach Your Children" or "Helpless," my mind hearkens back to a road trip to Colorado taken 38 years ago. Or, when I hear the early Beatles tunes, I am carried back some 44 years ago to feelings and experiences of my early teen years. Memories that are not ever present in my mind, but triggered by some external event. It is in remembering that we can be prompted and motivated to act!

Remembering can also provide for great teaching moments. While visiting with our sons and daughters and their children, and most often when tend to the grandkids at bedtime, we are often asked to tell them a story; something from our past. Most recently, when spending some time with Mabel and Oliver at bedtime, they asked each night for a story about Pa and Grandma. It is in these moments and others that we can, through remembrance, teach our children. Replete through the scriptures, we are reminded to "remember." Helaman taught his sons Nephi and Lehi to remember, for whom they were named. He further taught:

O remember, remember, my sons, the ^awords which king Benjamin spake unto his people; yea, remember that there is no other way nor means whereby man can be saved, only through the ^batoning blood of Jesus Christ, who shall come; yea, remember that he cometh to ^credeem the ^dworld.

And remember also the words which Amulek spake unto Zeezrom, ^ain the city of Ammonihah; for he said unto him that the Lord surely should come to redeem his people, but that he should not come to redeem them in their sins, but to redeem them from their sins.

And he hath power given unto him from the Father to redeem them from their sins because of repentance; therefore he hath ^asent his angels to declare the tidings of the conditions of repentance, which bringeth unto the power of the Redeemer, unto the salvation of their souls.

And now, my sons, remember, remember that it is upon the ^arock of our Redeemer, who is Christ, the Son of God, that ye must build your ^bfoundation; that when the devil shall send forth his mighty winds, yea, his shafts in the whirlwind, yea, when all his hail and his mighty ^cstorm shall beat upon you, it shall have no power over you to drag you down to the gulf of misery and endless wo, because of the rock upon which ye are built, which is a sure foundation, a foundation whereon if men build they cannot fall.

With 240 references to 'remembering' in the Book of Mormon, we are provided a great tool, by clear illustration, for teaching our children and others. May we create memories, record them, reflect upon them and use them as they are meant, to tutor us and those that we love in what truly matters. I take great joy in the remembrances of my mom and dad, for in them are quiet retreats that bring peace, joy and happiness. It is in the quiet reflections upon the memories of our lives, and in the memories of those that love us, that we are strengthened and enabled, even with perspective, to meet the full measure of our creation. Amid the commotion of all things, it is in remembering what truly matters, that we are motivated to live as we are meant to live, and experience the joy that is intended.

Sabbath Reflections - Willing to Submit

2008-09-01T23:33:00.000-07:00

In our society today we face a world in commotion and situational standards that tear at the very fabric of what truly matters. Words and definitions have changed; "tolerance" has become acceptance and embrace - even if contrary to core values and principles, "choice" has become the entitlement of society without accountability and responsibility, and "equality" has come to mean that we are all entitled to what everyone else has irrespective of consequence, principles or liberties compromised. We are being taught that good is bad and bad is good. Amid the commotion of it all, it is imperative that we are grounded in eternal principles, adhering in all things to the tender and "still" entreaty of the Master, willing to submit with exactness and honor to He who suffered all things for each of us, because He loves us and desires to be happy - we are after all, His friends - He has chosen us. It is imperative that we teach our children eternal truths and principles, in plainness, that they may be clad with the necessary armaments and remain pure in heart.

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

To quote the moving words of Neal A. Maxwell: "Jesus Christ is utterly incomparable in what He is, what He knows, what He has accomplished and what He has experienced. Yet, movingly, he calls us his friends. We can trust, worship, and even adore Him without reservation. As the only perfect person to sojourn on this planet, there is none like Him. In intelligence and performance, He far surpasses the individual and the composite capacities and achievements of all who have lived, live now and will yet live. He rejoices in our genuine goodness and achievement but any assessment of where we stand in relation to Him tells us that we do not stand at all. We kneel.

Indeed we cannot teach him anything. But we can listen to Him, love Him, honor him, worship him. We can obey his commandments and read his scriptures. We are never forgotten by him. We are his work and his glory and he is never distracted. We are the people of his pasture and the sheep of his hand."

"Dear to the heart of the shepherd, Dear are the sheep of his fold.
Some from the pasture are straying, Hungry and helpless and cold
See the Good Shepherd is seeking, Seeking the lambs that are lost
Bringing them in with rejoicing, Saved at such infinite cost."

In Matthew we are tenderly entreated to Come, to learn and to know our Savior and Redeemer, to become one with Him. If we submissively heed the counsel offered, we are promised peace, or rest unto our souls, being a spiritual rest or comfort. Notwithstanding, it requires a proactive effort on our part to, learn of Him, to know Him and to be one with Him. It is interesting to note that of all the qualities perfected in Christ, He encourages us in our own perfection by stating, in conjunction with the tender call to “come unto Him,” that He is “meek and lowly.” Of all His qualities, He highlights that of being meek and lowly with the clarion call that such is what we should become. For it is in meekness and humility that we become submissive. And it is in submissiveness that we become obedient and teachable. Therefore meekness becomes the basis of our progression on the pathway of discipleship, thereby leading to a submissive heart. And it is with a submissive heart that we become one with the Master and our Heavenly Father.

Even so, as counseled by further by Mosiah, we must “become as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father.” (Mosiah 3:19)

We must adopt the perspective of spiritual beings in a human, or “natural man,” environment, rather than human beings seeking for a spiritual environment. Accepting the atoning gift, freely and submissively given by He whose love is infinite, can only be accomplished in meekness and submissiveness.

The subtleties of this life are the destroying elements of life itself, we must put on the full armor of God and not just the breastplate. We must become fully engaged, fully yoked and obedient. If there ever was a time not to grow weary and stand firmly on the pathway, it is now. Disciples can still, and must, live in the world and not be of it. As men and women of Christ we are, as stated in Ephesians 4, to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted and forgiving," without contention. Howard W. Hunter further counseled us to “treat each other with more kindness, more courtesy, more humility and patience and forgiveness.” Our ability to do so is wholly dependent upon our discipleship in Christ, born of our proximity to the Savior.

Contention is divisive and weakens our capacity to meet the full measure of our creation. Contention is disabling in our defense against the enemies in society that would tear us and our families asunder. May we strive in all things, willing to submit and be one with He whose tender love is without measure; that we may always find love in our homes and in the simplicity of living as men and women of Christ, unfettered by the world.

Sabbath Reflections - Christ's Tender Mercy

2008-08-24T09:23:00.000-07:00

Garden of Gethsemane

A tender peace truly abides among us when we pause from the cares of the world, amid the commotion of all things, and gather together to lift, to strengthen and to nurture one another in the gospel of Christ; pausing from the seeming routineness of everyday living or amid our midnight moments to draw upon the tender mercies of the Master. We are blessed beyond measure as partakers of His love and atoning sacrifice, wherein we can be sheltered and comforted amid the storms of life.

As so many are sorrowed in the suffering of Stephanie's dear friends, Christian and Stephanie Nielson ("NieNie"), may we find comfort in the Atoning love and tender mercies of the Master. It has been a difficult year for many, and irrespective of our personal storms or joyful mornings, the Lord entreats each of us to come as He did Peter in Matthew. There is joy amid the sorrows, born of His tender love.

The meekness and infinite capacity of the Master to love is manifest in His submissive sacrifice for each of us as He willingly submitted and suffered in Gethsemane and on Calgary.

"And He shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith He will take upon Him the pains and the sicknesses of His people. And He will take upon Him death, that He may loose the bands of death which bind His people; and He will take upon Him their infirmities, that His bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that He may know according to the flesh how to succor His people according to their infirmities." (Alma 7:11-12)

His love and perfect empathy are without bounds as is His capacity to comfort because He suffered all things. How comforting it is to know and feel of His constant love.

Reflecting upon the compassion and tender pleadings of the Master, and following the account of the miracle of the loaves and fishes, we read in Matthew 14:

“And straightway Jesus constrained his disciples to get into a ship, and to go before him unto the other side, while he sent the multitudes away. And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone. But the ship was now in the midst of the sea, tossed with waves; for the wind was contrary. And in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went unto them, walking on the sea. And when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, It is a spirit; and they cried out for fear. But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid. And Peter answered him and said, Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water. And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus. But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me. And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?”

The Savior, knowing the hearts of His friends, constrained them that they should go and prepare the way for Him on the other side, while He offered concluding comfort to the multitudes, who likely sought to remain in the presence of the Master. After the multitudes dispersed, having previously learned of the death of his cousin John, the Savior sought for solitude and the comfort and solace of our Heavenly Father in submissive prayer. Having been comforted by His Father, the Savior went to join His friends. Amid the contrary sea, He approached. Discerning their fear and trepidation as He approached, He “straightway,” or immediately sought to comfort them by reassuring them that it was He, and to be “not afraid” and be of “good cheer.” How blessed we are as He tenderly offers similar counsel and comfort to each of us amid our contrary seas. Peter, seeking for reassurance, bid the Savior that he could come unto Him on the water. To which the Savior said, COME. Amid the storm, Peter looked about for he was distracted and looked away from the Savior, as we tend to do in life. He began to doubt, wherein he began to sink. Pleading for help, the Savior stretched forth His hand and caught Him, as He does with each of us in similar circumstance. Our contrary seas may be personal or extensial, spiritual or temporal, notwithstanding, our tutorial trials can be absorbed in the atoning sacrifice and suffering of the Savior, if we will but let them. His tender hands are continually stretched out to reach our reaching; if only we would recognize the infinite capacity of His atoning gift and love.

Sabbath Reflections - What Matters?

2008-08-17T17:56:00.000-07:00

We made a quick trip to Southlake to see our Texans these past couple of days, and look forward to the coming journeys to Nevada, Arizona, California and Indiana in the next couple of months. Although we have no plans to visit Washington DC in the near future, our constant is found in change, so who knows. In any event we look forward to our family "counting" (gathering) in October for the Chapman University unveiling of 'Bill and Barbara Parker Atrium Lobby.' (notice the orange and pink)

Sabbath Reflections
Sunday's are always great days for quiet reflection and contemplation. Having spent so much time with our kids and grandkids lately, and having just returned from Texas, my reflections have turned to family. While sitting in church today and singing the hymns my mind harkened back to years past when our kids were in fact kids, little children, even babies. It must have been the hymns that we sung today. But every time we sing Abide with Me, I Know That My Redeemer Lives, Silent Night, Families Can Be Together Forever, I Feel My Savior's Love ..., these tender thoughts re-emerge. As vivid as memories can be, especially for me these days, I thought of days' past when Lauren and I would share our daily evening routine of singing our kids to sleep at night, either while rocking them in a chair, in our arms, or just attending their bedsides. We would often sing hymns and Primary songs until they were fast asleep. What sweet memories!

I suppose it was the tender memories of singing the kids to sleep that caused me to further reflect on one of my favorite phrases, "it mattereth not." It is in knowing what truly matters and what doesn't that affords us valued perspective in life. For to know what matters and be anxiously engaged therein, increases our God-given capacities for success. It is when we are diluted or distracted by that which "mattereth not", that we become weary, frustrated and constrained or diminished, in whatever course we choose. If success is found in striving to meet the full measure of our creation, then it is incumbent upon us to be discerning as to what matters; in marriage, in parenting, in family, in our societal responsibilities and in life. I can still remember a story told by Stephen Covey of the family whose choice it was to spend their annual bonus on renovating a bathroom or taking a family vacation - his conclusion was that in the years that followed, little would be remembered of the bathroom, whereas the memories of the family vacation would linger through the ages. The perspective of attending and responding to what matters brings so much more peace and satisfaction in life. Inherent in its demand is to subordinate our self interests to those of others, hence the peace and joy derived thereby. Our joy is full as we think of our family and visit with each, even if they are spread in 6 states!

In the illustration above of loving our kids to sleep, will they remember us singing them to sleep at night, or getting them a drink as they sought to delay bedtime? Probably not, but the time spent, the peace felt and the love nurtured, if it did not profoundly affect them, it did me! These wonderful and tender memories continue as we visit our kids now as adults and have the opportunity to love our grandkids to sleep!

Joy in the Morning of our Lives!

2008-08-11T08:14:00.000-07:00

Although the exhilaration of pleasure has its allure, it cannot compare to the exquisite nature of joy. Pleasure is something we experience here and now, while joy is something without boundary or measure, for joy is everlasting. It is also interesting to note, that when seeking for pleasure, a temporary and fleeting experience, we fail to experience true joy, but when we seek for true joy or joy everlasting, we can and often do experience pleasure along the way. "Even legitimate pleasure is as transitory as the things which produce it, while joy is as lasting as the things which produce it!" (Neal A Maxwell) Hence the argument.

Unlike the pleasures of life, joy is everlasting and eternal, and is only found in that which truly matters; in knowing our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ; in tender and loving relationships; in family and posterity; in loving others more than self; in observing and experiencing the hand of God in His creations and in all things. Joy is the singular byproduct of charity and charity is the pure love of Christ.

As noted in a previous post and referenced above, joy is in family and in posterity. Without doubt our life is full. Such is not to say we don't have our moments or trials, but joy is also found amid sorrows in life.

To the joy in my life - Happy Anniversary! These past 36+4 years together have been filled with joy!

Obama Said What? Tell Me It Isn't So!

2008-08-05T08:23:00.000-07:00

Although not intended to be a political blog, I can't help but comment on the audacity and compromised judgment of Barack Obama, if what he is quoted as saying is accurate.

Tell me he was misquoted, but in today's USA Today Opinion Section Obama in defining sin is quoted as saying, sin is "being out of alignment with my values." Did he really say that? I know he talks of audacity, but really. This is beyond the pale, that he could define sin in such a manner, and qualify himself as the arbiter and judge of what is sin. It is not mine to judge, for people can think and believe what they will. Even so, it is an issue of pride beyond measure and extremely dangerous for anyone to assume such a position. Maybe he meant to say that sin is being out of alignment with Christ's values, that gets him closer, but he didn't. America cannot, should not and hopefully will not elect any individual who appoints himself as such.

Joy

2008-08-02T20:43:00.000-07:00

This past week we had the joy of family, with all in Sundance. Joy without measure - only added upon in fullness by participation with our sons as Matthew blessed Sadie. Although it is uncommon in the world today, there is no greater joy than when a loving father, by and through the holy Priesthood, takes his child in his arms and presents him or her to our Heavenly Father and then pronounces a heartfelt and inspired blessing on the child. To our joy, such has been our lot, as each of our sons have so blessed their children.

To each of our children and their families - you provide joy beyond measure because of who you are and the love and tenderness reflected in your countenances.

A Counting!

2008-08-02T10:19:00.001-07:00

We have spent the past week with all of our children and grandchildren. Although not a formal family reunion involving days of planning, the serendipitous event brought us all together since Hawaii last year. My parents flew in and we had quite the affair. I suppose you could say we "held a counting." Some pictures below to remember the occasion.

An Oxford Graduation

2008-07-20T07:34:00.000-07:00

Julianne and Lauren at St. Cross

We have attended many graduations in our day, from kindergarten to junior high, from junior high to high school, from high school to college and from college to post-graduate ceremonies, but of all that we have attended, Oxford was truly unique. Having remained unchanged for 800 years, we witnessed (in Latin) how all who have attended Oxford have graduated.

Julianne and Wambui

As Elliott posted here, it was not filled with lengthy speeches or common celebration, but in solemnity and tradition. The graduates swore their oath (do fidem) to the University with a reverent bow and return doffing of the cap. Congratulations to Julianne for achieving what few achieve.

Vice-Chancellor Hood

Julianne - Do Fidem

Bowing to Vice-Chancellor and return Doff

Julianne and Dean at St. Cross - doesn't he epitomize an Oxford Dean?

Pride (in a good way)

A friend, Toni and Julianne - Happiness!

It is now on to UNLV for Lincoln's sojourn through post graduate studies in dentistry.

Utah - An Amazing Place of Uncommon Beauty!

2008-07-13T13:05:00.000-07:00

We have been attending a Monday Family Home Evening for old folks in our ward, many of whom hail from parts unknown to common man in Southern Utah. A simple illustration is evident in this you tube clip (this is a very enlightening video). We decided that on our next run to Southern California that we would tour Southern Utah. We have been to some beautiful places in Utah, in fact we live in one. But, the sites we visited on this last journey were no exception - Utah is a place of uncommon beauty!

Oh, and by the way, on our path of simplification, we have closed escrow on our California home. We are now down to only 2 real estate properties - yay!!! We now find oursevles in England for Julianne's Degree Day at Oxford.

Some sites from Southern Utah and Highway 12, ranked among one of the great drives in the US.

Arches National Park

The Delicate Arch

Petroglyphs a short walk from Slot Canyon Inn, Esclante, UT

Julianne

2008-07-01T14:06:00.001-07:00

Julianne will not boast, so we will. We are grateful for her humility and sincere desires, and for her beauty both inside and out. So it is that we share this moment with her as a family. Congratulations for your accomplishments with Distinction at Oxford and for having top marks at Oxford for your Dissertation.

Father's Day!

2008-06-15T06:25:00.000-07:00

Today is a day of remembrance and a day of gratitude! To my father and my son's and the father's of our grandchildren (now and in the future), may this day be a blessing of peace and joy to each of you!

Thanks Dad for a legacy of integrity and love. Your experiences in life, and the devotion to striving in doing what is right amid the challenges and opportunities therein have been a great tutoring process for me in my life. Having observed and been taught by and through your experiences has laid a foundation of integrity, love, and a devotion to correct principles in my life. Thank you for being an example, and for being one willing to give the measure of all that you have for what is right and good. I am not sure, as a young man of 15, that I could have stood as you did and have become what you have become. To know of and witness your capacity to see the better part and choose with integrity, has been a blessing in my life. I am grateful that you are my dad, and grateful for the love and concern that you have given. Thank you for your testimony, lived and spoken of the Savior. Happy Father's Day!

To each of our five sons, may you know of our love with gratitude for the immeasurable joy and peace you provide! Given recent events and ponderings, it is your devotion to what is right and good evidenced in how you honor your priesthood, your tenderness to your wives and children and the manner in which you provide for each that matters and that is a comfort to me. The meekness and submissiveness to He whose love for each of us was express in His Atoning sacrifice is illustrative of who you are - thank you. There is no greater joy that we can experience than that of the love born of our Savior, but within that joy is the infinite love we share with each other. I am not sure that words can express that which sustains us and comforts us beyond measure, but to know within the homes of our children that each shares a constant and common love for He who gave all, that we might have joy, opens the windows of Heaven today. As stated to your wives previously, thank you for the glimpse of what is and what can be eternally. May you enjoy, in abundance, the bounty of this special Sabbath day - that with an eternal perspective, know that each of you are loved, always! There is no greater joy! Happy Father's Day!!!

Gdansk, Poland

2008-05-30T15:15:00.000-07:00

A very quaint Old Town and an amazing, and sorrowed, history. World War II began in Gdansk and through Solidarity, Gdansk was the catalyst for the fall of Communism in Europe! The World ,and especially Europe, should have great respect and appreciation to Poland.

Tallinn, Estonia

2008-05-30T14:53:00.000-07:00

Onto Tallinn... In 8 years, they have made great strides and improvements. Estonia is an impressive country.

Enjoying hot chocolate in Estonia

From Stockholm to Helsinki to St. Petersburg

2008-05-28T08:14:00.000-07:00

We stayed on the ship in Helsinki, the Rock Church was a difficult walk (sorry, no pictures in Finland). Onto St. Petersburg…

Look familiar?

Church of Spilt Blood

Hermitage

1st Steam Powered Battleship - WW I and shot the first shot of the Russian Revolution

Leaving St. Petersburg

The Baltic Beginnings…

2008-05-24T13:18:00.000-07:00

Although we departed Copenhagen during the evening, our trip really begins in the Stockholm Archipelago. What memory it evoked as we thought of our last journey through the Archipelago with everyone on the top deck swimming and enjoying the islands of Stockholm. Our next stop was Helskinki where we spent the day enjoying the accoutrements of the Crown Princess. Next, off to St. Petersburg, RuSSSia!

Stockholm Archipelago

A very narrow passage we crossed on a very, very large ship!

A very busy channel through the Archipelago.

Lunch in the square at Gamla Stan. This is the same square we had lunch at when we were last in Gamla Stan with everyone and Andrew reached out to touch the water in the fountain.

Julianne’s Dissertation Station at Buckland

2008-05-24T00:17:00.000-07:00

Julianne is finishing her final days of Trinity Term working on her dissertation and preparing for Degree Day; a long day at Buckland! She along with Lincoln and Neal are completing another step, although Neal is now stepping out of academia. Congratulations to Julianne, Lincoln and Neal for staying the course. What Neal is finishing, Lincoln begins. And Julianne, well, more to be written.

Julianne really did work hard at Buckland.

Many, many hours. Of course there were also walks to Stanton.

The weather was brilliant!

Time with Julianne - Oxford

2008-05-16T01:48:00.000-07:00

Today we spent time with Julianne touring Oxford. We spent time at Christ Church College and attended Corporate Communion in the Anglican Church at Christ Church Chapel where Julianne's friend Ruth played the organ.

The fan vaulting at Christ Church Chapel.

The Quad at Christ Church

Traditional English Tea with Julianne at the Randolph Hotel. It is wonderful being with Julianne. She is having a great time at Oxford and brings great joy to her mum and dad!

Mother's Day!

2008-05-11T07:00:00.001-07:00

To each of the Mother's in my life, what joy you provide!

Mom, thanks for the tenderness and love expressed in all of my days and for the lessons taught early in life that have shaped who I am. Thank you for setting an example of kindness, charity and service - and in teaching the value of friendship. Thanks for your patience and constant trust. I love and appreciate you that words can't express.

Lauren, words can't express the joys of life that we have and will continue to experience because of you. We have had the blessing of seeing a glimpse of Heaven in the eyes of our children and grandchildren. You have mothered and loved, taught and mentored. Our sons and daughters have been shaped and nurtured to be who they are because of your tender love. Our daughters' capacity to mother is a reflection of you in every wit. Through trials and tribulations you have been the constant in my life, and my love for you grows without measure!

To our 6 daughters - thank you for the sustaining joy! Each of you in your capacity to mother, now and in the future, brings comfort to my soul. Your spiritual foundations and capacity to love and nurture are a reflection of the love of and for the Savior. Having spent the past few weeks reflecting and visiting with each of you, and to see Julianne next week, brings the greatest of joy. It sustains us and comforts us beyond measure. To know within the homes of our children that each shares a constant and common love for He who gave all, that we might have joy, opens the windows of Heaven today. Thank you for the glimpse of what is and what can be eternally. May you enjoy, in abundance, the bounty of this special Sabbath day - that with an eternal perspective, know that each of you are loved, always! There is no greater joy!

Congratulations Lincoln!

2008-04-25T22:39:00.000-07:00

Today, Lincoln graduated from BYU with his Bachelor's Degree. It was an emotional day thinking about recent events and days gone by, with hopes to see days like today. What a joy it is to experience life and to catch the tender entreaties that are graciously granted in life. Congratulations Lincoln! Rather than an end, today is just the beginning - off to UNLV.

Mimi's Mom made the abundant lei's.

Easter - A Day and Season of Remembrance and Gratitude

2008-03-23T18:11:00.001-07:00

Although today is Easter, the most glorious and pivotal event in the history of man; a day in which all of Christianity reflects on the willing life and sacrifice of the Master, it is a season of remembrance that should be our constant devotion, always. The love of Christ is without measure, and his willing gift of life to all mankind knows no bounds. It is incumbent upon each of us to seek Him, to remember Him, to love Him and to serve Him. In all things, we should strive to have His image in our countenance, remembering always, His love, concern and perfect empathy for each of us.

The Knox brothers in 1912 stated, "Christianity would have to struggle for a hearing in a world where most would regard it not as untrue or even as unthinkable, but simply irrelevant." And C.S. Lewis wrote, "The sweetly-attractive-human-Jesus is a product of 19th century skepticism, produced by people who were ceasing to believe in His divinity but wanted to keep as much Christianity as they could." (Lewis, Letters of C.S. Lewis 181) So it is that society seeks to denigrate the Master and His loving Atoning gift given to each of us. As the situational standards of society seek to minimize Him and treat Him as "naught" or even irrelevant, may we remember and reaffirm our devotions to Him, and in all things evidence our gratitude for Him!

To modern Christianity the Atonement of Christ is limited to Calgary, it is there many believe that Christ suffered for us. To many in our faith, we offer that it was in Gethsemane that he suffered all things and on Calgary that He suffered further, willingly giving His life. However, the scriptures teach and the latter-day prophets reaffirm that the Atonement of Christ began with the fall of Adam, transcended to Christ’s infinite suffering in a garden called Gethsemane, such that he would bleed from every pore, and then to Calgary where nails would pierce his hands and feet, and then concluding in the garden tomb where he would overcome death and live again. He was the unblemished and perfect lamb, and the only one qualified and capable to effect an infinite and personal atonement for all; and for you and me. This should be our principal study and devotion, for in our devotions and discipleship to our Savior and Friend, all things will be added thereto and we shall have His promised peace and rest.

He lives, and may all enjoy this Easter Day and the season thereof, remembering His precious and loving gift of life that transcends this mortal probation, always. May His joy be with each and all!

From Buenos Aires to Sundance - Home

2008-02-25T22:53:00.000-08:00

The View from our Room

We made it home after a refreshing but epic journey. Buenos Aires was what you might expect, a large and expansive city in South America. In the midst of Summer, it was not all that cool, making our arrival in Sundance to snow and sub-freezing temperatures all that more enjoyable. It is nice to be home, if but only for a few days!

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow...

We have found ourselves inundated and snowed in on more than one occasion; it is good to be home.

As for our future schedule/itinerary, we are catching Jack's baseball game this Saturday in Ladera, then off to the Court's for Spring Training the following week for a couple of days, and then staying put in Sundance for the rest of March. Although, it looks like Elliott and I are thinking about an around the world run (China, Indonesia and Dubai) at the end of the month before the Indy Parker's head to Houston for the Horn farewell (pre-Tulsa) trip. We are heading to Indy during the later part of April while Elliott and Ginger head off to Oxford to see Julianne. We can't wait to spend a week in Carmel. At the end of May its off to the Baltic, Norway and England to see Julianne; Sundance in June and back to the UK for Degree Day in July to witness the awarding of Julianne's Master's Degree. So much for slowing down.

With the suspension of Mitt's campaign, we are helping to organize a think tank on religious intolerance and bigotry; it should be interesting. Otherwise its grandkids, Tucanos, Yodigity and Fund Development with Elliott.

For Audrey - Making a saddle in the Pampas!

2008-02-20T10:46:00.000-08:00

In the Pampas, they build saddles from the materials they use while out on the pampas. They build saddles while on the range (pampas) because when running a herd of horses, the saddle has to go on any one of the horses they choose to ride. Here is the sequence.

La Fortuna Estancia, Pampas, Argentina

2008-02-19T15:40:00.000-08:00

Welcoming us to La Fortuna

Today we drove 3 hours out of Buenos Aires to visit an Estancia (Ranch). It was very beautiful, peaceful and the food was tremendous. Here are some interesting photos. Tomorrow we will blog how they create a saddle that can go on any horse and also how they saddle the horses for Audrey.

Pa took a ride on Paloma for Audrey

Traditional Dancers

An "old" Gaucho and the lead Gaucho at La Fortuna

Here he is as we were saying farewell

Up Close and Personal (He was a cool looking gaucho, just what you would expect)

They lined up to wave adios!

Montevideo, Uruguay

2008-02-18T07:08:00.000-08:00

We spent the morning walking through the Independence Plaza in Montevideo and purchased a license plate; very exciting.

We did find a bit home, reminding us of Julianne and the unique characteristics of college life back at Oxford.

Independence Plaza

Proof of Uruguay

Falkland Islands (UK) (Malvinas Islands)

2008-02-16T12:09:00.000-08:00

This little Gentoo Penguin took a nibble out of Bama’s leg and so she told him to be nice.

Pa acting like a penguin.

The penguin colony at Sparrow Cove, Falkland Islands.

This new little penguin is moulting so he can take to the sea in the winter.

Cape Horn

2008-02-15T12:21:00.000-08:00

Circumnavigated by Sir Francis Drake, Cape Horn was very calm on our trip. It was very unusual as the seas can become quite treacherous. In fact, the previous ship had to take an alternate route, the weather was so bad.

Sunrise at Cape Horn

The Horns at Cape Horn

The Chilean military outpost at the southern most point of Cape Horn.

Ushuaia, Tierra del Fuego (Argentina)

2008-02-14T08:06:00.000-08:00

Today we spent time in “fin del mundo”, the end of the world. An amazing place, and 70,000 people live here!

The view from the port
Some of the valleys and mountains on Tierra del Fuego

For the Grandkids, Here is our ship and stateroom

2008-02-13T16:00:00.000-08:00

Parker was interested in our ship and stateroom, so we thought we would post it for all of the grandkids to see. We are thinking Alaska 2009? We will post about Tierra del Fuego in the morning.

The Star Princess

Our Stateroom (where we sleep)

Antarctica - NO; Patagonia - YES

2008-02-12T15:24:00.000-08:00

Today started bright and early and with all things in Antarctica, we waited for weather to determine our journey. The fog and ceiling were too low thus negating our flight. Only 20% of all flights to Antarctica actually land in Antarctica. We were diverted to Patagonia and saw some spectacular scenery; so much for 7 continents. Penguins will have to wait for a few more days.

In transit to Punta Arena.

Here are some pictures from today in Chile’s Patagonia, although the pictures don’t really do it justice!

A hosteleria where we had lunch today.

The amazing mountain range we visited.

A Guanaco, a member of the camel family.

The Horns of Patagonia Chile.

Southern Chile - Puerto Montt en route to Antarctica

2008-02-10T07:05:00.001-08:00

We landed in Puerto Montt on Saturday after a day at sea, and these are a few things that we saw:

We saw Ostrich-like Emu and Llama.

We saw some amazing scenery.

Someone brought mom’s car to Chile. And then, it was off to Punta Arenas and Antarctica.

And So It Began...

2008-02-06T12:08:00.000-08:00

We spent the first two days of our latest adventure in Santiago, Chile. It was a very long, uncomfortable flight in coach (!!) to get here through Dallas. The airport was a chaotic scene as about four or five cruises are all leaving out of Valparaiso tomorrow. Our hotel is very lovely and we can take nice walks around the city. Close to us is a gondola ride where you would have a view like this picture if only it weren't so smoggy! The people are very friendly and we had a nice driver take us to the temple only to find that it was closed for maintenance. Here is a picture of it anyway. We are planning to visit the temple in Buenos Aires and/or Montevideo and hopefully will have better luck! On to the Star Princess tomorrow.

Snowed In!

2008-02-03T18:12:00.000-08:00

It is hard to leave Sundance when the roads are closed. We were snowed in today, with avalanches on the road into Sundance. Here are some random shots around the house.

We have been on a tear lately with Mitt's Campaign, and catching up the grandkids. Even so, it has been fun! Julianne is doing well in Oxford and it was fun being with her at Buckland. Given Mitt's victories in Michigan and Nevada while we were in England, we think that we should stay abroad. We have been to see Mabel, Oliver and Stella in Arizona, Audrey, Parker and Miles in Houston, and Annie, Jack and Max in California. We missed being in Indiana but were grateful to see Andrew, Ethan, Emma and Sophie over the New Year in Sundance. Of course, its great being will all of the our kids as well. They each make us proud! We have missed Mom and Dad, but will see them soon, we hope! Surely, we will be back in socal in February.

The campaign has been interesting and Mitt is well positioned for Tuesday. He is tied in the latest Rasmussen National Poll with McCain and is currently leading the polls in California, Utah, Idaho, Colorado, Georgia, Missouri, Massachusetts and is very competitive elsewhere. Tuesday will be an interesting day. It won't be over or decided on Tuesday, as both Mitt and McCain will be competitive in the delegate race. Even so, the conservative base of the Republican Party have coalesced behind Mitt and a surge is underway. I have begun posting on the Political Scene 2008 blog if you have a further interest.

A New Year - Where we will be in early '08!

2008-01-05T07:18:00.000-08:00

Reposted

As we begin 2008, we have enjoyed the peaceful moments on the mountain. It is an adjustment from our California experiences, but a worthy endeavor. The weather has been a little cold (-12) some mornings, but the snow and vistas are beautiful. We have especially enjoyed family time recently with Elliott and Ginger, Andrew, Ethan, Emma and Sophie, and Matthew and Katie, Annie, Jack and Max, and Julianne, Lincoln and Mimi. As things quiet down and reflective moments arise, there are some thoughts worthy of sharing!

For the moment, please note our upcoming itinerary below -

January 5-8 Mesa for Stella's Blessing
January 8-10 New Hampshire (Primary) and Boston for Mitt's National Call Day
January 10-14 Sundance
January 14-21 Oxford to be with Julianne
January 21-27 Sundance
January 27-30 Missouri City, TX to be with Audrey, Parker, Miles and their parents
January 30-Feb 4 Sundance
February 4-21 Santiago, Chile-Buenos Aires, Argentina and Antarctica
February 21-Apr 22 Sundance

Although the above is subject to change.

What Happened In Iowa, What Does It Mean and Where Do We Go From Here!

2008-01-04T21:56:00.000-08:00

Many have wondered what happened in Iowa, what it means and where we go from here. With some brevity, here are some thoughts.

What Happened in Iowa -
Governor Huckabee rallied two critical grass roots groups, the evangelical Christians with their home schooling networks, and the fair tax advocates. As to the evangelicals, some interesting statistics can be found here and here. In summary, the turnout for the Republican Iowa Caucus was nearly 50% higher than the previous Caucus with a 125,000 record turn out. It was expected that the turnout would be about 75,000-80,000 with the unknown being the evangelical and fair tax groups. Had such been the case, Mitt would have won Iowa with his stable and strong support. It wasn't to be. Of the 35% that voted for Mike Huckabee, 80% claimed the label of evangelical Christians. Upon further inquiry, a large majority of the evangelicals stated that the most important measure of the candidate was whether his faith and religion were aligned with theirs. Mitt being Mormon was catalytic to their rally around Mike. They further indicated that only 7% felt Governor Huckabee was electable and only 10% felt he had the necessary leadership experience to be POTUS. Unfortunately, a very sad commentary on the failings of the Iowa evangelicals, that they would vote principally on the basis of religion. I must say, as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, my support of Governor Romney is first and foremost on his character, leadership, experience and competency, while appreciating, albeit nominally that he is LDS. Surely, I wouldn't vote for Harry Reid or even Orrin Hatch because they are members of my faith.

An interesting statistic quoted in The Corner, of the non-evangelical vote, Mike Huckabee took 4th among the Republican candidates, an indication of where he will stand in New Hampshire and in most states. It was apparent with the turnout that in spite of good and solid support for Governor Romney, he couldn't overcome the ignorant voting practices of the dominant evangelical community. Even so, it has been written that not all evangelicals take to the same course of the Iowa evangelical community, which may bode poorly for Governor Huckabee in other religious settings. Surely he will try.

What Does Iowa Mean -
Given the measure of impact by a singular group of religious voters, the results in Iowa are of little consequence to Governor Romney. He won the votes of the issues based voters in Iowa and is the only Republican candidate who is competitive in all early states and nationally. Some other interesting statistics:

No Republican who finished lower than 3rd place in the Iowa Caucus has gone on to win the party's nomination. Only once (1988) did a third-place finisher (George HW Bush) go on to win the nomination. (Doesn't bode well for Rudy)
No candidate who finished with less than 18% of the vote at the Iowa Caucuses has ever won the nomination (also 1988). (Doesn't bode well for Fred or John)
George HW Bush lost the 1988 Caucus by 20,467 votes (19%) yet went on to win the nomination. Ronald Reagan lost the Iowa Caucus by 2,182 votes (2.1%) yet won the nomination. (Bodes well for Mitt)

Where Do We Go From Here -
As noted above, Governor Romney is the only Republican candidate that is competitive in all early state primaries/caucuses. An interesting analysis by the political wonks offers further credence to Mitt Romney's campaign and his electability (see below).

Mitt Romney is competitive in all states and has a deep well of financial resource, both from donors and his personal wealth to engage a national campaign. He is the only candidate who represents the Reagan Coalition of a strong military, strong economy and strong families, in spite of Ed Rollins (Huckabee's campaign chairman) stating the Reagan Coalition is dead. Mitt is the only candidate with significant and successful leadership experience in private, philanthropic and government enterprise. Although criticized for his personal self made wealth, I want a candidate who has succeeded on principles of integrity, intelligence and hard work. Mitt Romney represents the agent of change to fix Washington without being inside Washington. Mitt Romney surrounds himself with bright and intelligent people to lead teams and execute on strategic initiatives that he and his team develop.

John McCain is out of money and is borrowing heavily to stay in the race, and is further considering matching funds which all but sinks his ability to compete in a general election; John McCain is only competitive in New Hampshire and it has become his firewall; John McCain is currently leading in the New Hampshire polls (within the margin of error), but is without a strategy beyond New Hampshire; John McCain benefited from Huckabee's Iowa victory, but was counter punched with Obama's win, as the Independent and Democratic moderates will likely vote Democratic in New Hampshire rather than rally to McCain, a source of his strong polls. A great American, but not a great Republican (gang of 14). And let's not forget the Keating Five, which causes some consternation on ethical lapses. John McCain has poorly managed and led his Presidential Campaign.

Rudy Giuliani is lagging seriously in all early state elections and has very little money to engage a national campaign; Rudy Giuliani, albeit strong on executive experience, has been challenged with ethical and judgment issues; Rudy Giuliani does not reflect social conservative values or principles; Rudy Giuliani left New York City in financial disarray, as stated by Michael Bloomberg, with a deficit exceeding $2 billion - Rudy is not a fiscal conservative. Rudy Giuliani has not surrounded himself with strong leadership and has governed as mayor in a self absorbed and dictatorial fashion.

Mike Huckabee is a social conservative but a moderate to liberal advocate on fiscal and foreign policy matters; Mike Huckabee's gubernatorial service was fraught with ethical violations, significant growth of the Arkansas government and fiscal budgetary expansion of greater than 100%; Mike Huckabee is ignorant to foreign policy matters and appears to inform his policies with what he reads in the newspapers, when he reads them. Not very intelligent, but politically astute, Mike Huckabee has not selected or surrounded himself with bright leadership. In fact, he has chosen Ed Rollins to chair his campaign - not much else need be said. Mike Huckabee, albeit affable, has little to offer other than quaint phrases and well-timed humorous punchlines - He is not well informed on matters of critical importance and thus not fit to lead our nation. Mike Huckabee is running for President as a Christian, not as a leader who happens to be a Christian, there is a stark difference. Mike Huckabee is without significant financial resources to carry his campaign beyond New Hampshire or South Carolina.

Fred Thompson is a consistent conservative, a good actor, and was an average Senator. Fred Thompson doesn't have the financial resources to continue his campaign and is in effect broke. Without any leadership experience, Fred Thompson is firm in his convictions and Federalist policies. Likeable and deliberate in thought, Fred Thompson seems to be running a vanity campaign rather than a campaign to serve our nation. Not very well spoken, nor energetic, Fred Thompson seems to be a mediocre candidate with little to show of success other than his career in Hollywood. Too casual for me, and I believe for most Americans.

With the above comparative, Mitt Romney presses forward as he stated, having finished the first of fifty innings. He is in it to win and is the most credible and viable candidate to lead the Republican Party. Does he need to win New Hampshire? Not necessarily. Although a win would be nice, a strong finish is what matters. Ultimately, the Republican race for President will distill down to two candidates, Mitt Romney and either John McCain (if he garners momentum out of New Hampshire) or Rudy Giuliani (if he can hang on until February 5th as he will be out of the media and Presidential dialog until then).

Mitt needs the continued support, both financially and politically, of each of us. I solicit your support on his behalf and look with anticipation to the nomination on September 4th in Minnesota.